Social capital and community, built in real life.

The app that helps youbuild new friendships over dinner with friends of friendsturn acquaintances into real relationshipsbuild new friendships over dinner with friends of friendsget a warm intro to anyone you needreconnect with people life got in the way ofnever lose touch with the people who matter most

Others help you connect. IRL helps you build the relationships that matter.

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Inside the app

The Happening tab in San Francisco: plans near you this week, including a founders' supper hosted by Emma Walsh, with a way to request a spot.Hosting a table for ten: the friends you have invited, the venue, and how the bill is split.Emma Walsh's profile: a real photo, ID verified, and how the two of you already know each other.People you should meet: warm introductions through friends you already trust, each with a reason, and a choice between interested or pass.Messages, with your AI concierge at the top for making plans, above your chats with people you know.A chat with Daniel Okafor, holding down a message to ask IRL to remember it for later.The Nurture tab: promises you made and people worth reaching out to, each with a one tap message.Your people sorted into circles, from acquaintance to inner circle, with when you last spoke.A grid of member photos, each with a verified badge: everyone is ID checked before they join.The Gather tab: host a table, a one-on-one coffee or a hangout, with your coming and past plans.

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Hear when IRL launches in your city, and when dinners or events happen there.

Warm Introductions

Every intro comes with context and a trusted mutual, no cold outreach, no awkward openers

Shared Tables

Join intimate dinners with friends of friends, and friends of those friends. The conversations that change everything start here

Your Relationship OS

Notes, reflections, and smart reminders that help you actually show up for people, even when life gets loud

Find Anyone, Instantly

Can't remember someone's name? Search everyone in your IRL by where you met, what they do, their city, or even notes you wrote about them

One Scan, Every Platform

Share your IRL and connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, WhatsApp, all at once, in a single scan

See Your Relationships Grow

Understand which connections you're investing in and bring intention to every relationship that matters to you

Introductions by AI

Tell IRL what you're looking for, a collaborator, a mentor, a kindred spirit, and AI quietly finds who you should meet. Fully opt-in.

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The people who will change your life are already around you.

IRL helps you find them, connect with them, and keep them close.

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